Find your Adoption Network Family

We understand that this is an emotionally and difficult time in your file. We want to be there for you in the coming months and support you because you are an important person to your baby and to us.

You are one of the strongest women we will ever meet. It takes someone very special to have the courage and love in your heart to do what you are doing. Remember that you are strong and you are making the right decision, whatever your choice ends up being.

Ours is a very family-oriented lifestyle. We promise to provide your child the life all children deserve; a loving and stable home surrounded by family where they will be loved unconditionally, and encouraged to learn and grow.

In our home, your child will be the center of our lives. We will work our hardest to provide the loving environment that they deserve. Your child will have many opportunities as far as their interests and in life experiences, whether it is going on cool vacations, joining a club or sports, or even just having time to do things they like to do.

We want you to know that we are praying for you daily. We can’t imagine how difficult and unselfish this decision has been for you. We don’t pretend to understand all that you are going through but we would consider it a privilege to walk beside you along this journey. Our prayer is that God will give you abundant grace and the confirmation that you have made the right decision.

We both came from humble beginnings and came to America in search of better life and opportunities for ourselves and our future kids. We worked hard at creating a secure and stable home. We are so ready and beyond excited to welcome your child to our loving home.

We promise to help your child get through all the highs and lows of life and to give them endless support. We will instill the best parts of ourselves in your child, whether it’s James’ work ethic or Jackie’s caring and kind personality. Our goal is to help your child be successful in every part of their life.

We lead an active lifestyle and enjoy outdoor activities like hiking, kayaking, riding in our UTV, and camping. We have lots of love and guidance to provide as parents, and your child will always know how loved and wanted they are.

Your child will grow up in an atmosphere of love, peace, and joy. We assure you that your baby will have a life full of opportunities and adventures, but most importantly, your child will be loved.

Your child will grow up with a big brother who will love, care for, and look out for his little brother or sister.

I promise you that if you trust me to raise your child, he or she will be loved fiercely and will be encouraged to grow into the person they are on the inside. I look forward to family vacations, trips to the beach, singing, and all the amazing things life has in store for us.

We have a tremendous amount of love to share with another child who would complete our family. Both of us grew up in loving homes that have left us with fun childhood memories, and we want nothing more than to create the same experience for our children. We promise to be your child’s biggest advocates, cheerleaders, mentors, and safe space.

We can’t wait to experience with them the big things, like their first day of school or championship sports games, and the little things, like family dinners and homework at the kitchen table. We are excited to expose your child to all that life has to offer.

It is not lost on us that your sacrifice could possibly be our miracle. We plan to live each day in complete gratitude for the incredibly selfless gift that you are considering. Life in our home will be an everyday celebration of this gift.

Entrusting us with your child will ensure that they will be loved beyond measure and taken care of for the rest of their lives.

We would raise your baby in a home filled with laughter and joy. We would join our community pool in the summer for swim lessons and eventually join the swim team. We will explore all the local parks to discover which your baby likes best. We will have pizza, popcorn and movie nights on Thursday where we all cuddle on the couch for the newest family flick. We cannot wait to plan vacations to the beach and Disney world.

To bring a child home into our big crazy family is our dream.

We love Wisconsin for its many seasons and can’t wait to introduce your child to all the fun activities each season brings. We will enjoy long summer days on the lake, sledding in the winter, and fall trips to the orchards and pumpkin patches.

Our house is always filled with so much love, music, and laughter. We both play musical instruments and we have fun writing songs together! We both value family time so much and are thrilled that our parents became best friends with each other, your baby will have a strong family unit to support them. You are not alone while you are on this journey. We are here for you and assure you that your baby will know you, your bravery, and your strength.

Your baby will know they are loved, will have every opportunity we can offer them, and will be encouraged to love others and have confidence in themselves. Most importantly, be assured that we will tell your baby from the beginning who you are. They will know their birth story and how you sacrificed so much for their future.

We are not in your shoes, we cannot imagine the way you feel, nor the weight of this decision on your heart, but what we can do is assure you that we would be in this process alongside you. We have love in our hearts, and room in our lives for both you and your child.

You are looking for a wonderful home and future for your child and we’re looking to share our love and lives with a child in our family. Perhaps we are looking for each other?

“The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other’s life.” – Richard Bach

We cannot imagine all you have gone through as you read this letter. Know that we hold you in highest esteem and admire your strength. We think of you daily and want you to know how deeply and unconditionally we will love your baby.